We say believing in oneself is called confidence in oneself, but what does it mean to believe in oneself?
In many cases, it stays at the ego level. So we have to fight all the time to continue to believe in ourselves. We always compare ourselves with someone else as well and keep our minds focusing on trying to be outstanding.
There is actually no true confidence within such a superficial level of consciousness. The true confidence is something that spontaneously overflows beyond the ego. There’s nothing to compare, nothing to fight, there’s only deep and tranquil confidence there.
Do not forget that we are observers and observed simultaneously.
Though our minds always focus on who is right and what is best, it’s just in the level of ego, in the illusions, and we are not the ego nor the mind actually.
And yet, the most important thing here is that no one can step aside the suffering until we realize deeply that we don’t want it anymore.
That’s why we should taste our own experiences fully. And keep forgiving the ego that we can’t help but fight, and the mind that only compares.
Then one day we’ll realize deeply that we don’t need it anymore.
In that way, the day when we transcend a part of ego comes spontaneously.
And we will find the true confidence within. We will realize as well that we’ve been always the true confidence itself.🙏💗✨