“Let go of one’s own expectations”
Everything is here and now.
What changes our reality is, only “How much do we open our hearts to experience much deeper experiences at the front of the reality?”
Events only happen, and the matters that conscious mind (awareness) and subconscious mind (unconsciousness) pay the most attention influentially determine our experience at the moment.
For instance, even if our conscious mind wants that “I want to be loved and needed by partner,” but if what our subconscious mind has longing is to look at our own past through that relationship and to experience more authentic freedom and love, we may be attracted to different kinds of addictive partners and experience abuse. And we may wonder why we can’t be happy even if the conscious mind may only want to be happy. On the other hand, the subconscious mind may appreciate the relationship, touch the innermost silence to observe everything anew and finally realize the truth.
Our experiences depend on where our perspective is, where our conscious minds and subconscious minds are. There’s neither right nor wrong there at all.
It’s just that neither the world nor others exist to live up to any expectations of us and that events only happen.
Expectations are the manifestations of the ego’s desire to come true the illusion backed by stereotypes. Those are only the mind stuff.
In fact, both stereotypes and illusions are only in the individual dual world created by the mind.
In other words, it can never happen in the truth even if it seems as if to come true temporarily. It only creates new opportunities to awaken us to more profound until we let go of our own expectations, – which often seems as if difficulties.
It can also say that we all live in different realities. These realities will never come to the same, and also all individual consciousness (the conscious mind and the subconscious mind) cannot come to the same. This means that any advice is directly useless because we all are in the different phases. However, this also means simultaneously that the Consciousness can listen it and keep it until necessary at the innermost because of being the same as the Oneness.
In any case, if we meet the difficulties, sooner or later, we come to the point where we have to let go of our expectations that created by the mind, by observing ourselves much more carefully and finding out what longings of our hearts are.
If we can’t let go of our expectations even if we know that we should do it in our heads, we will need to figure out first why our minds expect so much, what our minds are trying to get from it, and so on.
Again, expectations are the manifestations of the ego’s desire to come true the illusions backed by stereotypes.
Therefore, check over and over again what the longings of our hearts are. And live resonantly with it.
Because there’s authentic joy of our true nature with it.🌈🙏✨
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