“THE FIRST THING WE NEED.”
After some action, when our minds judge our own actions as the wrong, some people unconsciously tend to act as if we are self-punished ourselves. That behavior is probably influenced by childhood experience, but unfortunately it won’t stop until we realize for ourselves that it doesn’t fit our present.
We tirelessly observe our own words and actions, and if we find such a tendency, we need to accept the influence of the past and forgive them. And then when we meet people who behave that way, we will be spontaneously able to accept and forgive them. Because everything our eyes see is a mirror of our own internal experience. They can not be different.
Internal acceptance and open hearted are always needed first.
Everything we see happens because of the experiences that our spirits longing for. And it does not the same with just the happening. So there’s neither need to blame ourselves nor others nor any situations. Because that’s the way this universe exists.
Here, no matter how unconvinced we may be, it is necessarily arisen that we need to entrust the unresolved as it is to the universe.
What many people don’t know is that even if we entrust the unresolved as it is to the universe, nothing will collapse down. But if we don’t choose such experience by ourselves first, how we can realize that it happens?
Look at what we’re losing in our ego obsession. On the contrary, what we get is actually nothing but just a tiny self-satisfaction of the ego.🙏💗✨