“FAMILY, PARTNERS, AND EMOTIONALLY CLOSEST PEOPLE”
They influence the biggest on us emotionally. At the same time, viewed from another angle, it means that they give the greatest opportunity for us to transcend our own illusions about relationship.
If we can transcend the illusions that each of us has created, it means that we have fulfilled our implied promise, that is our promise we spiritually made, to go to the next phase through our relationships.
But that doesn’t mean, “Let’s transcend this challenge together.”
For us, to transcend the illusion that the mind creates always means each spiritual theme of each mind, and it means that we cannot force others to face the same challenge together. If you would like to force others, that means there’s another challenge for you.
Thus, while facing ourselves through the relationship is a lonely challenge at the level of mind or ego, it is also a collaboration with people at the spiritual level, and that is invisible, but actually the greatest mission that relationships have.🙏💗✨
Most people are not good at going deep into the innermost of themselves. And when we run into a problem, we often look at things planarly (without changing our own perspective), search a solution and try to solve them. Any solution by its perspective still remains in the same planar, even either table or back, or beyond, and almost always creates some new problem transcend its planar, even if, for example, some solution appears to have been found.
This planar world exists within the limits of a dual world of mind. Most of us live and die only in it. We keep thinking about what is wrong and who is wrong, taking great care not to fall into that “wrongness” and also unconsciously keep tormenting ourselves.
But don’t we really feel any sense of incongruity there? No?
We were not born to adjust ourselves to suit our society and our values and to be good people. Nevertheless, why we tend to take a great care not to fall into the wrongness is that we are accepted from others almost only when being good.
Such as when we are different from social values, we are left out, criticized, or admonished by people who are in fear.
And if we would put ourselves in those values because of our own fear, it means that we muffle ourselves up as we are.
However, through this experience of fear, it’s also a fact that we can reach true love where transcends fear, not the opposite of fear.
Everything that is necessary for that is in us.
It is our innermost complete silence that only can free us from the illusions of our minds.
What rescues us from our own drama is definitely not an ego that is planarly tossed about in our emotions but our innermost silence.
That’s what leads each of us to the transcendence of the dual world of mind.
It may sometimes be very painful to go deep into the innermost ourselves. That is the first big pass that we have to surpass. In such a case, we just take a rest for a while. We just need our own energy which arise spontaneously to try again and surpass that.
When we can not surpass it no matter how many times we try, we may feel helpless or sometimes feel as if we cannot get over it and may want to give up.
In such a case, remember that all the answers are within us, and that the most important is to connect to our innermost silence.
And try again and agin.
It’s more essential to connect with our innermost silence or at least to try to connect, than whether we can surpass that pass.
To feel sense of dynamic life for anyone needs to act by ourselves.
This seemingly chaotic world is actually, within a visible way, where we are separated from the oneness (we are never actually separated), and experience various things with total freedom.
In fact, the world exists as the dual world and the non-dual world simultaneously, and between them, there’s also a various dimension. In other words, the chaos and the cosmos exist here at the same moment.
What to experience from there depends on our awareness. Even if we encounter the same event, we have a different experience. Even if we read the same book, it depends on each to be able to read what from there. That’s a evidence of freedom and we live that total freedom. And that is the state of wholeness, and the oneness can only be touched from that innermost.
So it means that it cannot happen that our consciousness come to at the same time at the same expanse of awareness at the same dimension.
If that happened the case, it would mean that we would loose the total freedom, that the SELF, God itself would disappear, and that nothing would exist.
As long as we are the freedom itself and God itself, it can never happen a world in which sorrow and suffering or whatever negativity disappear from everyone’s lives as some people say. It means that no one can deprive anyone of the opportunity to experience anything here.
Because for the wholeness and the oneness, there’s nothing to grieve at all.
It never means that someone should experience suffering for any relative experience of others, but we can experience anything if we want.
What do you really, really want to experience?
Ask yourself as many times as you like.
The more ask ourselves seriously and surrender our own ego, the deeper we will be led to the profound.
And it will lead us to the oneness and the wholeness, which is called the heaven.🙏💗✨
“SPIRITUALITY, THE MOST IMPORTANT INSEPARABLE ASPECT OF LIFE.”
What we must transcend is not the opinions of people, or the environment we were born and raised, or our own weak points, or whatever, but our own limited awareness, which keeps us away from living our true nature. It keeps creating every single duality, like happiness and unhappiness, abundance and miserableness, and dramas that bring us self-pity or a sense of superiority or whatsoever.
Have you ever noticed what your innermost really wants? Have you ever noticed that it’s never something material, is nor someone who fulfill your deficiencies?
Have you ever thoroughly investigated your values?
Have you ever asked yourself where that come from, why you keep it for such a long time, or how it protects you and from what?
And why are you so sure that you’re vulnerable?
Have you gotten used to observing yourself yet without any judgment?
You are the only one in your world who can break the prison chain of your mind, open yourself to the infinite unknown, and experience your true nature to taste the perfectness of this universe.
This is invisible, but the most important, inseparable spiritual aspect of life for everyone. 🙏💗✨
A happening and what we experience are completely another thing.
Things just happen. But experience is changed by our own idea of the world.
As you know, even if we’re afraid of the future and get fully prepared for what’s going to happen, things are often beyond our expectations.
In fact, there is no fixed future, no destiny.
Moreover, to live the present moment is even never in our minds.
Because the happening is changed at every moment by mutual interaction between people in the unconscious level, and at the same time, our own experience becomes also different by our level of awakening.
Therefore, instead of taking time to make a plan or being particular on that schedule, live this moment while always observing one’s own feelings or thoughts that are like clouds floating in the sky.
Live meditatively, carefully taste every aspects of your experience.
It will surely continue to open you to the unknown, even without any preparation or fear. 🙏💗
Words are not meant to make anyone understand themselves. No one originally does have such need and does nor exist for that reason.
In fact, no one can ever make all people understand through one’s words. Because we live at the different phases in this moment.
Even if we can verbalize everything we perceive by the wholeness of consciousness, when others try to perceive them without their wholeness of consciousness, it will surely become different contents.
We just express something we perceive on our phase in our own way, and in the same way, we tend to perceive everything within our phase if we are unaware of our own unknownness.
All is just one of expression of wholeness and our experience is just manifested what we perceive now from what we face. And no one can ever touch the wholeness unless we perceive it with the innermost.
Remember that everything we need is always inside. 🙏💗✨
It’s not because of keeping a distance by separating our own emotions, but it’s because of accepting the emotions as they are and also awake that those emotions are not ourselves. That’s why we can stay calm even when we come across as the same as having been upset before.
In other words, we spiral up the dimension we live by awakening.
So don’t run away from your own experience for fear of being hurt or wrong. These hard times can surely lead you to the higher dimension if you trust that is led you even if it’s unknown for you, stop resisting, and release a kind of dysfunctional habit which might be patterns of thinking or ways to view surroundings.
And one day, we will clearly see that all of our emotional experiences have been a sure road for us to reach the complete silence.
Spending time with people close to you psychologically is hard to stay calm and it’s the hardest challenge for us. Therefore, if you are able to stay calm in many situations, it will be a good to spend time with those psychologically close to you. Such a hardest challenge can lead you to the much higher level or create your calmness into more stable.
Can you see here that both you and those are a team for each other to be led to the higher level even if you, they, or both deny?
We all have created the hardest challenge for our own selves between those people unconsciously. That’s why sometimes they are the most difficult to transcend, but simultaneously they can be the most powerful teammates for us.
Now you see as well that the team is always a sure road for anyone to reach the complete silence? 🙏💗✨
“IS THERE REALLY ANYTHING HAPPIEST THAN BEING FILLED WITH OUR TRUE NATURE?”
People who try to fill their greed will realize that their emptiness will never be full in the way some day. Some of them will face that fact and try to make clear what really their need is. On the other hand, some others will try to escape from the fact because of the fear that it brings.
But actually we all know at the innermost that escaping from the fact will never bring any way to return to our inherent. It’s just we don’t know how to return to the center and how to listen to the innermost voice, and we continue losing the way.
Say that you don’t know anything aloud. Accept the fact one by one without judging. That’s where everything starts.
Nevertheless, people always say what we should or shouldn’t within various viewpoints out of kindness. But no matter how much others or our mind continue saying what we should or shouldn’t we all have to find and listen to our innermost silent voice, not our mind’s voice. Because the worlds others and the mind see and the world our true nature sees are not the same, and no one else can live our own lives.
Therefore, we all have to find our own way to quiet the mind.
Go outside. Do yoga. Walk in a forest. Do simple thing repeatedly. Do meaningless things with full effort. Until the mind is quiet. These are the way of various meditations to reach our true nature.
The innermost voice is what we can not hear with the ear, but it’s always within our innermost silence, and we can never lose it.
Is there really anything happiest and most important than being completely filled with our true nature? 🙏✨💗