Trying to be a good person will never make you a good person. In other words, it means the same as declaration that you are not a good person. It’s because you believe that you are not a good person subconsciously and that’s why you are trying to be a good person. In that way, that definition that you are not a good person makes you imprinted into your subconscious moreover deeply again.
That’s a powerful self-suggestion.
While you find evidence of yourself being a good person, your ego is satisfied, but once you find evidence of yourself not being a good person, you will be driven to the brink of despair or continue to pretend not to notice to avoid it unconsciously.
It’s called a drama.
Unfortunately, in that way, you will continue noticing against your will that you are not a good person.
We have to admit that a relative opposite evil person is necessary for a good person to exist, that there is always a limit there, in an alternative view of the world which is a dual world.
We all have a fundamental necessary that we have to transcend such an alternative view of the world, the dual world. Otherwise, we will never find the true peace inside.
In fact, our true nature, the SELF, exists far beyond good or evil.
That’s the truth.
And when we stopped all efforts of trying to be beyond good and evil, or anything like that, by surrender, we will find it inside ourselves blissfully.
Many people think that they are not good enough, and try to change themselves or others to improve relationships, or try to make society better, with great disappointments.
From the higher dimension, everything is always perfect right now even if the mind thinks it’s not.
Ultimately, there is no self to be improved, no one to be changed, no society to make better here. In every one of us, there is the mind that thinks this is not enough and tries to change about it, and the higher dimension of awareness that is observing all of them.
Everything always exists right here now simultaneously. Just in front of us. Just in us.
And we all always have the freedom of what experience we choose from all kinds of happening. The mind thinks that our own happiness is influenced by happening, but if happiness is always in us, what can influence the happiness?
Actually, we are happiness, joyous itself.
We are the key ourselves. We’ve been always choosing what we experience ourselves from the higher dimension unconsciously.
There are terrible experiences in this world that shouldn’t be, and it’s not all of us will be happy if they don’t happen. No matter someone could’ve made a perfect world they imagined, we will definitely experience what each of us needs as same as now.
So stop blame yourself or others. It’s the same whichever you blame yourself because your mind says you’re not good enough, or you blame others because you unconsciously project your judgment on others. They are only the two different sides of the same coins.
It’s never ever bad to have a terrible experience because if each of us doesn’t have a sad or painful experience, none of us can be able to know what sad or painful is.
Fortunately, not everything exists at the level the mind can notice.
Observe carefully what our mind sees as inadequate when trying to improve society. Observe carefully what the deeper motives behind our action. And accept and forgive ourselves for being hurt in the past.
It will definitely release ourselves into calmness and stillness.
Then we will no longer think that we should change ourselves, nor will we continue to struggle with illusions that we must make society better because we will realize that we are always the perfect from the beginning.
Ultimately, there is no individual experience, nor individual soul, we are the oneness, through each individual body, that tastes each experiences. That’s why there is never ever right nor wrong, nor failure in any experiences. The oneness and an individual experience are as same as the relation of the sea and a drop. Both are the same.
It’s okay, it’s okay now.
When we have enough of any experiences and realize “I don’t need it anymore”, we will move on spontaneously.
So just return to our center. Once we reach there, anyone will definitely knows that it’s our center. It’s never our mind to know though.
Our minds only look at the surface, and they tend to think that we haven’t reached there yet, or that someone hasn’t yet, or something like that. But obviously, the mind can always be just an obstacle to return to the center.
So, get away from the mind and search deep inside ourselves. There is absolutely the perfect silence there. And remember that we’ve been absolutely perfect, are now, and will be in the future.
Character never defines who we really are. Character can be changeable, and it is always under the influence of mind. And the mind is influenced by the ego consciously and unconsciously.
Our true nature can never be influenced by such those egos.
But many people see themselves only at the ego level and don’t know that there are much more deeper and wider world within.
To know is not what to get knowledge in our head, but what to comprehend through our own experience in gut, more directly.
And in order to comprehend more directly what’s really important for us needs to live in the present moment and to observe ourselves consciously.
Here’s one huge wall that we have to cross over.
Conscious observation of ourselves means seeing ourselves beyond an area of judgment, but if we are not used to do it enough, it is often very painful to observe because the influence of minded judgment is too tough. In fact, it’s a natural reaction of psychological self-defense that many people unconsciously avoid observing themselves by that pain.
That’s why we all need to find out the higher and the more silent space within to observe ourselves consciously.
And so when we become able to observe ourselves beyond the influence of minded judgment gradually, we will realize that any character can never define us, and be spontaneously able to get away from our drama of role that our character unconsciously made.🙏✨💗
It’s just only this moment to give yourself an OK, to taste what you experience, and to able to find happiness in all of it. Because we can only exist in this moment of “now.”
“Someday” exists nowhere.
Those are just illusions – ‘I would give myself a reward if I could ~‘, or ‘I could contribute to family or society when I got ~’, something like that. By thinking that way, we will miss the very moment of “now.”
We always live in this “moment” and only this moment of “now” actually exists infinitely.
So, do not run away from one’s experience for fear of getting hurt.
Because we are here to taste all else as well, not only hard times. Of course, actually, sometimes it’s necessary to run away, but our deepest desire cannot be to continue running away. We all need to have the courage to believe in our own unknown potential by forgiving our own fearfulness.
We are actually the courage itself and can realize it by accepting the existence of our own fearfulness.
Many people have listened to nothing or seen nothing. It’s just because they don’t know how to do.
We will be full of emptiness until truly knowing ourselves. That’s why we just follow the trend or try to satisfy our emptiness, while we still don’t know ourselves.
It’s about knowing the depth of our true nature, not only level of the mind or the body.
There is no other way to realize the depth of our true nature but to forgive and accept as we are, step by step. Even if there will be a moment of ascension to the consciousness with profound realization, only we can do is not try to ascend. Because to try to ascend means that you think that you are not enough, and it only avoids a spontaneous ascension.
To search any insufficient and punish or correct ourselves or others will definitely make only more suffering.
Remember, the less we know ourselves, the easier we are swept away.🙏✨🌌
Love takes nothing away from anyone, nor does it fight to get anything.
It is not the art of love to claim correctness in the name of love or to try to eliminate mistakes.
Love doesn’t control what to do and what to say, nor does it obsess, nor does it even require conditions for giving.
Love never battles. Therefore, love never wins or loses.
Love just accepts everything and softly frees you into the infinite unknown.
Are you afraid of the unknown or freedom? Have you ever observed to your root of that fear? Although the root of the fear is the fear of death ultimately, but what if it’s just an illusion and your true nature is immortal?
And what if love itself is your true nature?
If your true nature is immortal and love itself, would you imagine what the deepest wish is beyond your ego?
You don’t have to be more than you are now, and you don’t have to prove who you are. It only makes yourself more suffering in further dramas. All you need is to free yourself from those illusions and distance yourself from them.
Otherwise, you will certainly miss the precious moment, now.
You never separate from the oneness, nor have you ever been anything but love itself.
So please open your heart to feel the perfection of the present moment, love itself…🙏✨💗
In the world of the mind, there is no one but you, your separated self, because everything you see is a reflection of unconsciousness and values. Right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, or anything else. There is always a comparison there that which is better. In that world, you are the only one who creates everything in your world, consciously and unconsciously.
In the world of the oneness, there is only one consciousness. There is nothing else. Everything, including the unknown, always exists simultaneously, which means that anything can exist. There is not even a way to see right from wrong there. Therefore, for instance, if you would complain to someone means that you just express your resistance towards the fact that the person is just your reflection of unconsciousness and values, and that your ego is related to it.
After all, there is only one that exists in either world.
Are you happy now? Are you able to answer this question immediately?
If your answer is “No”, then ask yourself what true happiness is.
Conversely, if your answer is “Yes”, then ask yourself that if you lose your family, qualifications, or something whatever belongs to you, and yet whether you will be able to say that you are happy or not. After asking that, if your answer changes into “No” from “Yes”, it’ll mean that you’ve lost sight of true value of your true nature.
The happiness isn’t controlled by what happens to us. Furthermore, the happiness is neither emotion nor something which is provided by getting something.
The happiness is the state of being filled with who you are. It’s not given us when we get something, but is realized only through acceptance of oneself as we are and circumstances as they are now.
That’s why it is said that the happiness depends on us…, depends on how we catch ourselves and world.
No matter what happens in our lives, everything can be an opportunity to open our minds and deepen our recognition about ourselves into our true nature.
Therefore for instance, anyone who finds it difficult for us to get along with can be a kind of a guide to the next stage, in other words, we can see it as an “illusion” of our own mind or ego and use its opportunity to realize ourselves deeper.
The mind or ego always wants to be a victim or a hero. It’s because then the mind can justify the ego. But the mind or the ego is not oneself. Some people may say it’s a part of human being, but that’s a misunderstanding.
Our true nature will never be any victim of circumstances such as times, societies, or families, because through that experience, we can touch what lies at the deepest, and for the first time we can find deeper awareness in its silence.
No one has come to the truth without difficulties.
This means even if our minds or ego continues to refuse to accept something as it is, our true nature is always tasting all experiences delightfully whether we realize it or not.
There might be times until now that you thought you needed someone to tell you what to do, or you felt like you were lucky to know some sages, or you needed some more sages.
But the only wisest sage for you is your true nature.
You were never once a person until now who needed someone to tell or fill you.
Even if you felt that the words of sages have been useful for you, it means that your true nature had led you to create a state of being resonant with the profoundness of sages – not by the superficial words of sages.
It always happens regardless of how you are aware of yourself.
In other words, the more you consciously choose the invisible that leads you instead of believing you need someone, the clearer the path to the oneness with all will become unavoidably.
Firstly, we get quiet the mind, carefully observe oneself without any judgment or criticism, and then change the way we see the world.
It will necessarily change our next choice.
And the more we continue to do so, the more responsible we will be able to take for our own choices and our own life.