If we feel difficulty in a relationship with someone, it’s proof that some theme is hidden for us.
Don’t run away from our own feelings or don’t pass the buck to that person, face with ourselves, just step by step. It can sometimes take a long time to face with. But it will surely lead us to more mature and let us free from our invisible cage which is based on our past memory or fixed idea we’ve unconsciously brought.
Once we are purely able to accept the fact and sincerely face with it, the same theme will be unable to happen again for us. Because we’ve stepped to the next phase already.
We all have a variety of themes worth challenging and they are always hidden in our relationships with others or in something we feel difficult to handle.
In this way, if we can consider all problems as our own themes and can faith that they can bring us to the more profound realization and to natural next phase, then every problem will be simply a blessed gift given to us from our true nature.
Choice is always up to us. Take time for ourselves however others and our mind say. Because it’s the most significant time for us spiritually. 🙏💗✨
Each one of our existence is unique, and its uniqueness is also unique in every aspect of depth of awareness, perception of experience, way of expression or whatsoever.
That’s why this richness of diversity can create dynamism of life and every lives can shine.
Nevertheless, the feelings of loneliness and alienation that we feel while our diverse uniqueness is hard to accept or we can’t find common ground between others and ourselves can be immeasurable, and it can create in us desperation.
That’s why we keep looking for someone who understands and accepts all aspects of us, or for a place where we can exist without being denied.
So we have created a variety of systems and things in search of ultimate security as basic needs, but still today, we suffer from a sense of loneliness that cannot be wiped out even if we combine them all.
However, it will be never found in our outside no matter how hard we try.
It’s simply because it’s only found in the innermost of us.
And at every moment, our present conditions are all unique and part of expression of the Oneness, even if we cannot recognize as it is by depending on the state of our own awareness.
Once we can touch this non-dual world by our hearts, we will all admire the profound of this invisible world (actually, we can see it at some dimensions.) and be in awe of the abundance which is far and away beyond our imagination.
It’s always within us and will never go away.
And what the cloud of mind disappears and coming to see all beauty as it is, is not happening that happens at the future after desperate trying, we can be so right now.
It is always achieved by touching our innermost silence and accepting our own uniqueness.
The stronger the fear, the more cleverly our egos justify our aggressive behavior.
Love which is our true nature never needs excuse.
This is a point where each of us obviously needs to return to our own innermost silence, and is our responsibility to take rather than to justify our aggressive behavior.
Firstly, do not run away from our own fear or any other feelings, and secondly admit that we fear something and thirdly find what is in depths of the fear.
Otherwise, we will be unable to return to peace of our hearts again.
Remember that our true nature is pure love itself, unconditional acceptance and forgiveness. This is not for thinking by the mind, but is what we will truly realize when we return to the innermost silence. 💗🙏✨
Most people are not good at going deep into the innermost of themselves. And when we run into a problem, we often look at things planarly (without changing our own perspective), search a solution and try to solve them. Any solution by its perspective still remains in the same planar, even either table or back, or beyond, and almost always creates some new problem transcend its planar, even if, for example, some solution appears to have been found.
This planar world exists within the limits of a dual world of mind. Most of us live and die only in it. We keep thinking about what is wrong and who is wrong, taking great care not to fall into that “wrongness” and also unconsciously keep tormenting ourselves.
But don’t we really feel any sense of incongruity there? No?
We were not born to adjust ourselves to suit our society and our values and to be good people. Nevertheless, why we tend to take a great care not to fall into the wrongness is that we are accepted from others almost only when being good.
Such as when we are different from social values, we are left out, criticized, or admonished by people who are in fear.
And if we would put ourselves in those values because of our own fear, it means that we muffle ourselves up as we are.
However, through this experience of fear, it’s also a fact that we can reach true love where transcends fear, not the opposite of fear.
Everything that is necessary for that is in us.
It is our innermost complete silence that only can free us from the illusions of our minds.
What rescues us from our own drama is definitely not an ego that is planarly tossed about in our emotions but our innermost silence.
That’s what leads each of us to the transcendence of the dual world of mind.
It may sometimes be very painful to go deep into the innermost ourselves. That is the first big pass that we have to surpass. In such a case, we just take a rest for a while. We just need our own energy which arise spontaneously to try again and surpass that.
When we can not surpass it no matter how many times we try, we may feel helpless or sometimes feel as if we cannot get over it and may want to give up.
In such a case, remember that all the answers are within us, and that the most important is to connect to our innermost silence.
And try again and agin.
It’s more essential to connect with our innermost silence or at least to try to connect, than whether we can surpass that pass.
To feel sense of dynamic life for anyone needs to act by ourselves.
Did you see the beauty of raindrops or look up the sky today?
Or…
Do you know the global cycle how raindrops moisten the ground, carry nutrients to the sea, then evaporate and return to the sky again?
Or…
Have you ever felt the beauty of various creatures that purely enjoy the freedom in the present moment?
Or…
Can you feel your heartbeat to send blood to your whole body, and the greatness of that function?
The nature tirelessly keeps functioning, even while war continues in somewhere countries or it produces lots of sorrow among people out of hatred.
So why not give time to yourself every day to taste the beauty of the nature and to be impressed by the inherent freedom right here now?
For yourself, physically, psychologically, spiritually, make time for yourself to straighten out every your aspects into the inherent balance every day. Don’t forget to touch the nature which resonates us during that time.
It will become easier for anyone to listen to the innermost voices when the mind is quiet.🙏✨💗
Those also say that they seek others because they are lonely, but that means “I need someone to fill my loneliness,” which is completely different meaning from “I love someone as a person.”
It’s not that we’re half human beings and that we can’t complete as one person unless we find the other half. We’re not like 1/2+1/2=1.
Each of us is perfect inherently, and that’s why we can touch the invisible depth of love more deeply through loving oneself or others and grow up spiritually. Actually, we are not even 1+1=2, but can become 100, or even more.
We don’t even have to be a kind of a couple to realize the depth of the true love. Whether it’s a couple or not, neither the sex nor the race nor the country where we’re born or raised has nothing to do with it entirely.
First of all, we have to stop seeking someone to fill our own needs and keep asking ourselves where the loneliness comes from, not to think, but to observe as we are.
And we also have to stop self-deception gradually in order to taste the real sense of the oneness, not verbally, and to realize profoundly that loneliness is nothing more than an illusion in mind.
Have you ever transcended “I” or “Me” and found the SELF yet who has nothing to do with loneliness in the mind?
If you have not, or it’s unstable, or whoever, keep searching to the innermost, and keep observing yourself carefully.
Because it’s infinite as our true nature is inherently freedom.
Find out if there’s really a blank inside you or if your true self is really lonely. Find out if what you strictly believe is true by yourself.
We’re Tyltyl and Mytyl from “The Blue Bird” of Maurice Maeterlinck.
We all have to find the blue bird in the innermost by our own selves. In this sense, all of us are the same travelers on the spiritual journey…🙏✨💗
“SPIRITUALITY, THE MOST IMPORTANT INSEPARABLE ASPECT OF LIFE.”
What we must transcend is not the opinions of people, or the environment we were born and raised, or our own weak points, or whatever, but our own limited awareness, which keeps us away from living our true nature. It keeps creating every single duality, like happiness and unhappiness, abundance and miserableness, and dramas that bring us self-pity or a sense of superiority or whatsoever.
Have you ever noticed what your innermost really wants? Have you ever noticed that it’s never something material, is nor someone who fulfill your deficiencies?
Have you ever thoroughly investigated your values?
Have you ever asked yourself where that come from, why you keep it for such a long time, or how it protects you and from what?
And why are you so sure that you’re vulnerable?
Have you gotten used to observing yourself yet without any judgment?
You are the only one in your world who can break the prison chain of your mind, open yourself to the infinite unknown, and experience your true nature to taste the perfectness of this universe.
This is invisible, but the most important, inseparable spiritual aspect of life for everyone. 🙏💗✨
Words are not meant to make anyone understand themselves. No one originally does have such need and does nor exist for that reason.
In fact, no one can ever make all people understand through one’s words. Because we live at the different phases in this moment.
Even if we can verbalize everything we perceive by the wholeness of consciousness, when others try to perceive them without their wholeness of consciousness, it will surely become different contents.
We just express something we perceive on our phase in our own way, and in the same way, we tend to perceive everything within our phase if we are unaware of our own unknownness.
All is just one of expression of wholeness and our experience is just manifested what we perceive now from what we face. And no one can ever touch the wholeness unless we perceive it with the innermost.
Remember that everything we need is always inside. 🙏💗✨
Feelings are just like clouds floating in the sky. They naturally appear and disappear.
And you are not even the sky with the clouds but the universe itself. You are Creator who creates everything you experience.
Sometimes it seems as if your experience can be influenced by happenings in the world, but it’s just illusions. Your true nature can never be influenced by them and just choose what to experience.
You are the only one.
There is no mistake nor correct at all.
All is beautifully expressed.
In your recognition, life might be harsh sometimes but the harshness also gives you an opportunity to taste other various brightness. Like only darkness can identify lightness.
You experience everything whatever you choose. But they always transcend all conscious choices in your mind level.
You are the universe itself, the only creator to your experience in life.
You create the lightest, the darkest and all of between them splendidly.
So, something you should grieve cannot exist there. And therefore, there is nothing to should be corrected at all.
Because there is nothing lacking in yourself or in the world you create.
Touch the beautifulness of your life. Taste its dynamism you wonderfully create. Realize the perfectness of your existence.
We always need each other. Our existence is always mutual collaborative.
For instance, suppose that there are a bad person and a good person, it does not mean that there is evil to punish there or there is contrarily an ideal state there as a person ought to be.
It’s only that there is always a world that is projected the ideas of each other. And that is, each of the ideas are created just to transcend them or for spiritual awakening, by our own selves.
There’s nothing and nothing happens actually.
We keep creating the world that is projected our own ideas for ourselves only without rest unconsciously. It’s never for anyone else.
And what’s just being you as you are, genuinely useful for others. That’s more powerful than intentional.
In that sense, we are always mutual collaborators.
It’s regardless of what we did or how much we did.🙏✨💗
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