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“GENUINE LOVE”

What is commonly called ‘love’ has nothing to do with “genuine love,” but is merely an attachment out of the mind’s (ego’s) physical, psychological, sexual, and financial fears, or an illusion that is just a concept in the name of ‘love.’

Furthermore, at the root of many people’s blind beliefs to this attachment out of their ‘fears,’ or concept in the name of ‘love’ is the ultimate “fear of loneliness” and “fear of death,” and in the end, these various illusions of ‘love’ are maintained by the illusion of the mind (ego) that wants to avoid such ‘fear.’

Because of these deep ‘fears’ held by each individual, marriage becomes a kind of contract as an agreement for avoiding each other’s ‘fears.’

However, not only does “genuine love” not exist in such a relationship, but if people continue to cling to attachments and concepts without facing their own mind-centered view of life and their own illusion of ‘love’ in the relationship, sooner or later, such a relationship will fail, or despite the fact that it is an empty relationship with no substance, each will become simply playing each role to keep it going.

“Genuine love” is found when each of us stops searching the outside world for a self-indulgent love, goes deep within ourselves until the innermost, and at the complete stillness.

In fact, “genuine love” can only be found there.

And only when each of us finds genuine love deep within oneself, can we truly support each other in our respective spiritual studies, and at that time our respective spiritual awakenings themselves will be naturally facilitated by the synergy effect as well.

There is no expectation, no desire, nothing. In this way, “genuine love” is as unconditional in complete freedom.

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Nevertheless, it is a very difficult for most people to dig deep within themselves. This is because, in the depths, sits the ‘ego,’ which is an abomination to them. For them, digging deep inside themselves means that they have to face their ‘ego,’ which means that they are subject to harsh criticism and judgment by reason (mind, ego) that “does not approve of the ego.”

This happens because they identify themselves with the ‘ego,’ and this identification makes it difficult for them to dig down further into the depths, which is one of the reasons why we are not good at inquiring into ourselves.

In fact, until we truly find “genuine love” within, we all continue to be at the mercy of harsh criticism and judgment by that mind (ego), and it is also difficult to realize the pointlessness of looking around outside.

This is why most people believe that it takes a tremendous amount of courage for them to dig deep within themselves.

What we really need to believe in here, however, is the very essence of each of us, far beyond our mind (ego) level selves, that is constantly leading us to the best and most optimal.

This essence is never ever separated from the One Consciousness, which is also called God, and is always connected to all other essences as the very same Consciousness itself.

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On the mind (ego) level, there are various “dos and don’ts” and laws and penalties are established to avoid them, but on the spiritual level, on the other hand, the truth is that there are no “don’ts” at all.

On the spiritual level, it does not matter what people or society have done to you, what you have done, or what you are doing on the surface, but rather, in the face of events, “what happens inside of us,” and “from what position are we observing it from?” When we are able to perceive this position clearly, it is the same time when our spiritual awakening is also greatly promoted.

And this promotion of spiritual awakening only happens when each of us is in touch with the innermost stillness, and never otherwise.

Every inner movement is a signpost on the way to deepening our spiritual awakening, and pointless is to ask, “What have I been able to do?” or “What can’t I still do now?” or whatsoever at all.

Such thing is all just a judgment by the mind (ego), and all the mind sees are always mere illusions.

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Thus, the “genuine love” that everyone seeks most is found by the person oneself at the innermost stillness of each.

And this spiritual journey is never lonely as the mind (ego) imagines, and every person is on that spiritual journey right now, just as you are.

When you yourself find “genuine love” in its deepest depths, you will naturally see this as well.

And this “genuine love” is who you truly are.

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The answer is always deep within each of us.

And the answer can be met when each of us transcends the invisible walls within each of us by oneself. (OM 🙏)

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