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“EXPLANATION”

Explanation is an attempt to explain a situation to someone other than oneself in order to clear up a misunderstanding of the other party.

However, the basis of this behavior is the misconception that “you and others are two separate entities.”

Furthermore, the behavior that is based on what you are perceiving as being other than yourself at that time, in fact, has nothing to do with the other person at all, but only serves to convince your own mind, which is nothing else.

For instance, it is an excuse to own mind, such as “I had my own circumstances, so you should understand.” In other words, it actually means that it is your mind that listening to it while talking to it, and the other person whom you want to be accepted it is also your own mind.

On the other hand, whether or not the person to whom you are making explanations accepts them depends on how much they accept their own selves as they are.

In a world where people identify themselves with their mind (ego), most people judge whether the other person accepts you or not based on the other person’s reaction, but since the other person also identifies themselves with their mind (ego) and projects themselves onto others in the same way as you do, the other person’s reaction would be a merely expression of what they think about oneself. Therefore, there is no way that the other person’s reaction can represent the merits or demerits of you as a person.

In other words, that other person’s reaction is merely an expression of the values held by the other person’s mind, which either accepts or rejects their own selves depending on the conditions, which is also a mere illusion.

In their awareness, they perceive you as someone other than themselves, but since this is a misperception to begin with, whatever reactions they give you are simply a kind of commentary about themselves.

For instance, “I (mind) cannot accept your __, because I do not recognize mine as a person.”

However, there is no such thing as someone else anywhere.

Nonetheless, those who still identify themselves with the mind (ego) will be still resentful or disappointed when they do not receive an explanation as they had hoped.

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But if it started out as a misconception that there is someone other than oneself, there is no need to make any explanation toward anyone anywhere at all.

Moreover, this behavior not only strengthens the mind’s (ego’s) identification with oneself, but also further promotes an illusion that is only a projection of the values of its own mind.

In other words, every time we explain something to someone who we consider to be another person, we are actually self-hypnotizing ourselves to continue living in a world in which we identify ourselves with the mind (ego), and about the values the mind is attached.

For instance, the true reality from the view of the Consciousness is that we are telling our mind, not the other person, “You are a separate entity from ‘me’,” or “I (mind) believe that A is good and B is not good,” while seeming that we defend ourselves to someone we think is the other person, but actually reiterating that judgment to our own mind.

In this way, we unknowingly continue to live in the illusion of ‘separate and isolated beings’ that our minds create more .

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When you notice yourself making explanation, or wanting to make explanation, etc., please stop it each time.

It’s because, not only is there no such thing as the other person, but the behavior is only further hypnotizing oneself, so in order to deepen one’s spiritual awakening, it is necessary to ‘change the behavior each time we notice it.’

Such a change in your behavior may sometimes cause some of those who still identify themselves with the mind (ego) to criticize you, or conversely, to show favoritism.

However, whether it is an accusation or a favor, you or someone else does not exist anywhere, and furthermore it’s merely an expression of the illusion that the person’s mind is seeing, therefore if you unknowingly tend to go into that illusion, it will be necessary to look at yourself behind such a reaction.

The truth is, there is no need to try to clear up someone’s misunderstanding anywhere. The other person’s misunderstanding, the misperception that you are separate, are all illusions.

However, of course, it is not only important to stop making explanation, but it is also important to continue self-observation in every moment and accept whatever your reaction is at any given moment as it is, to the extent of “This is how the relationship between my mind and essence at the moment.”

At that time, it is important to remember not to attach the identification with the mind’s (ego’s) and you, but only to observe it as the behavior of the mind (ego) only.

You are not any related to them at all, but are calm, compassionate, unconditional true love itself, and your true nature is the part of Consciousness as the essence that has never been divided from the Consciousness itself and is always connected to everything else as oneness.

Therefore, any fear (of denial) or fear (of becoming alone) that you may feel when trying to change your behavior, or whatsoever, you should surrender them to the higher that is far beyond you.

Then you can remain simply witnesses as an observer.

The rest will just happen as it always does, just as each of us needs it to happen.

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One by one, carefully. Peace and love with yourself no matter who you are. (OM 🙏)

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