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“IF WE HAVE ACCEPTED OURSELVES UNCONDITIONALLY.”

We would just be able to be there as the very salvation for those who are in the middle of a maze, feeling difficulty and sometimes even despair.

In fact, none of us need any advice at all.

Yet, there are certainly times when anyone who is yet in a state of separation and isolation spiritually needs to be accepted themselves as they are from someone.

Just touching with that total acceptance, which requires no words at all, those in the midst of despair can be given, at least a little bit more hope for life.

However, if we get the urge to give any advice like “you should _,” we should be aware that it is only a projection of our past, and only our ego, and then we will need first and foremost to accept ourselves as we are, to keep hidden under that advice.

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If we can really be a salvation for someone as pure existence, it is because we are self-accepted, and we are not listening to words of others with our mind, but we are able to listen to the heart behind people’s words with natural opened hearts as the Consciousness itself without judgment.

We all can only face others as the same way as we face ourselves.

Therefore, if we have a part of ourselves that we are denying, even if we don’t recognize it, the other person in front of us will be a person of embodiment that part of ourselves that we don’t want to see, through our own unconscious projection, and unless we are aware of this projection and the fact of our own denial, we will further unconsciously deny the other person the same way.

This will manifest itself in the form of advice such as, “You should _.”

Furthermore, remember that for instance, if we try this self-acceptance from the ego that wants to be a good person, mind-first, “to be someone’s salvation,” that is also just the same self-deception.

No matter who we are, even no matter how much we embellish our words, what is conveyed to others through communication depends not only on our words and body language, but also on the degree of acceptance ourselves as we are and the degree of awareness of our own projection. (This is apart from such as the influence of the mind of the receiver, or the influence of the cognitive distortions in the relationships acquired while growing up in a dependent & co-dependent household.)

This is because whether we are aware of it, there is so-called an energy that we naturally radiate, and it is always representing the truth of us, which can not be affected by any false influence of the mind.

Therefore, continue to value what our hearts really longing, rather than what others or the mind think we should be and do.

In other words, no matter how many techniques we learn, how many good grades we get, or how good a job we get, it will only apply to the surface, the dual world, and in that way, needless to say, it is impossible to know the non-dual world, where the essence of self itself exists, and of course, moreover it is impossible to realize who we really are.

In this way, in fact, even though many people feel that something is missing, and yet eventually, they unconsciously keep to ignore their essence, their longing of hearts.

Face ourselves first. (OM 🙏)

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