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“WHEN YOU LISTEN TO PEOPLE.”

When you are listening to someone, are you waiting to point out what they are doing wrong or what they are missing?

Are you stuck in your own definition of the word?

Or are you not stuck on what you think is the ‘correct expression’?

Did you capture exactly what the other person was talking about in the first place? Can you really say that your interpretation did not enter into it at all?

Moreover, who is the ‘you’ behind the action?

And what exactly is that someone you need to tell about what you want to tell them no matter what?

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When people talk about something private, most of the time they are not looking for advice. They just need someone to be listened to and received as it is with an open heart.

If that’s hard to imagine, look back at yourself. Haven’t you ever needed to talk, which is one way to release your inner energy properly, more than you needed advice?

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“Listening with your heart” means, for instance, have you ever wished that your ego’s reactions (superficial behaviors) and your innermost feelings would be understood rather than your superficial reactions, when they seem to be out of sync with your innermost feelings?

If you have ever thought that you need is someone to just listen to your feelings, then you will naturally know how to open your heart and listen to people.

If you have never had such an experience, then perhaps you need to listen to your heart a little more.

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To “listen with your heart” to others is to be in the present moment.

Those who unbearably want to give any advice are more immersed in a dual world of thinking and identified with an ego that desperately wants to be right than to be in the ‘now’.

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Take the path of receiving just as it is with open heart, rather than assert what you think is right.

There is nothing to has to be controlled, nothing at all. There is only the illusion.

Look at that fact straightly.🙏✨🌈

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