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“Marriage, Partners.”

Continue to let go of what you think you ‘know.’

Life is not about completing the numerous stages that the mind thinks it is. If you make marriage or partnering one of those goals, you lose that profound meaning that relationships are inherently meant to have.

Therefore, like some kind of status, we shouldn’t push ourselves into numerous definitions to savor each one we experience as the essence of life, that are just illusions of our mind, such as at how old we should get married, how many children we should have, or how our marriage or relationship with our partner should be, and so on.

Even when it comes to ‘love,’ the mind’s definition of ‘love’ is often far from the true unconditional love, and sometimes even the love that parents have for their children is far from it. True love is something so profound that the mind can never grasp it.

The mind that does not know, that cannot know, the essence, thus distances yourself from the heart and continues to distance you from the joy of living.

The joy of living is something that cannot be reached by conditions. Only by carefully savoring existence itself, savoring the ‘now,’ can anyone experience the dynamism of life.

The ‘now’ that you are living cannot be fulfilled by conditions, and in fact, beyond the emptiness that you hold within you, there is an overflowing love that is your true nature, your very existence.

The only one who can make that love overflow is you, and the only way to open that door is to discover beyond the emptiness that you yourself hold.

This can never be done by the mind.

So, throw off every piece of armor you think you ‘know’ one by one. And then, surrender to the fact that the wisdom you need in the ‘now’ will always be available at the right time.

Our subconscious (true nature) is always organizing and storing what is truly necessary from the overflow of information, even when you are unaware of it. They will come to the surface of your conscious when you need them.

However, what we really need is not the information itself, but the experience that the information represents, and we will naturally go to that experience without anyone telling us when we live in the ‘now.’ So, you just let nature take its course.

By letting go of each thing you think you ‘know’ rather than desperately trying to be what you should be in the fear held by the mind, and by focusing on carefully living and savoring the unknown ‘now,’ your next door will naturally open for you.

Therefore, it is essential to free yourself from your mind that keeps you locked in a tiny box.

Then, love yourself and others by going beyond your mind’s definition of ‘love.’

In marriage or in your relationship with your partner, there is always some special lesson for both of you (your unconscious commitment to each other for spiritual awakening), no matter what form it takes or what level of conscious you are in, so learn about what you really need to learn (the path back to unconditional love).

(By the way, there is also mutual commitment for spiritual awakening in the parent-child relationship.)

This means that you will learn about yourself through the person in front of you.

And choose to receive the love offered by the person in front of you, without putting conditions on it or rejecting it.

The problem with love actually comes from trying to apply one’s definition of love to the words and actions of others. This can be seen in marriages, in relationships with partners, and in parents and children, but its start is actually the experience of being hurt.

This hurtful experience is a major factor that takes a person back to the past and causes us to cling to the definition of love that is associated with it.

This wounded ego of the past, which is the greatest challenge for anyone, can only be healed through acknowledgement and acceptance by the person.

Therefore, we all need to constantly look at that wound within ourselves.

When you can honestly admit the existence of that wound to yourself, you will be able to gently embrace your past with a deep love that you were never able to do before.

In this way, you will free yourself from the visible world and the definitions that these various minds hold.

The visible world, any definition, they can all only be applied to the extent of the mind. But if one truly wants to transcend the world of suffering and sorrow, one must transcend the scope of the mind itself. Because far depth this visible world, far beyond the various definitions, is where our true nature exists, where true love overflows.

The only reason for all your painful experiences have been attracted by your subconscious mind is to stand in front of that door, to push open it by yourself, and to savor the world beyond that door, a world overflowing with true love.

That is how true love, your very being, which you may not be able to comprehend at the moment, but which is far beyond the imagination of the mind, continues to guide you.

Believe it or not, it is what you should find yourself deep within yourself, far beyond loneliness and emptiness.

Otherwise, you will never understand the true nature or taste true love.

When you look deep inside, the obstacles that stand in the way are the judgments we keep holding on to. So go into the depths where even those judgments cannot reach. Into the utter silence within you.

If you can sincerely look deep within yourself in this way, your marriage, your relationship with your partner, or your parent-child relationship will inevitably change.

Therefore, we are to check deep within ourselves again and again when we are lost, about what is it that your true nature really longs to reach (to learn, to remember) beyond the superficial relationship?

Clarifying this will inevitably change your invisible position in your marriage or relationship with your partner, which will naturally lead you to the world your true nature longs. This will ripple out around you as a butterfly effect far beyond the mind’s imagination. However, as for that ripple effect, off course, it is not within the reach of Mind, so we just have to leave it far beyond our own conscious…🙏🌈✨

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